Kelvin's Philosophy of Life

So many of us spend each day of our life searching for, or seeking the perfect or wonderful life that most of us wanted so much. But think again, 'a wonderful life' or 'life that you expected' is not simply a movie. If you have the answers you seek to make this wonderful life journey, if not, you keep seeking for the answers. For all its ups and downs and good and bad days, life truly is a wonderful journey, if you understand it is more about the trip then where it inevitably takes you. Along the way however there are "direction aids" that make the meaning of life a far more beneficial, spectacular, creative and pleasant journey. Don't spend a half life learning what the phrase ' its my life ' really means. Don't spend your time thinking why aren't your life aren't as good as the others or even compare your life with others. The mistake most people make about finding the meaning of life is searching for the answer instead of living it.

'Why does happiness seems out of reach?' A question that many might seem to ask themselves when met with the downside of life, be it for a short moment or a long period. Happiness don't drop from the sky. Happiness don't disppear just like that as well. It's whether you know how to create them and at the same time, cherish them. More often than not, we human beings are unhappy because we seem to do comparison in our lives. Comparing how bad our current life is as compared to life years ago, but one do have to understand the fact that human being age. During the process of growing old, there's several stages we have to pass. We can't be possibly smile at the age of 35 thinking that you are going to get a sweet lollipop once you get home. Different stages has different expectations, responsibilities and life as well. Each and every individual is different, therefore, comparing with others will only make yourself suffer and ask more 'whys'.

Contentment. It's something that seems to be far away from a person. It's not difficult to make a person contented with his or her life. Whether a person can be easily contented, it's very much dependent on the expectations on life of that person. Naturally, the difficulty of being contented rises along with the level of expectation. A child can be easily contented with a lollipop, whereas trying bringing it to an adult, it means nothing. Instead, a stable job is all that can keep that adult contented.

'Well, that's life' --> This sentence doesn't seem to hold much meaning for those who's already feeling pessimistic. In fact, this phrase means more than it seems. How we want our life to be, it's duly up to ourselves. The way we shape it, the way we do it and the way we achieve it, it's all dependent only on us. So no matter how much complaints we have, the earth still spin, plants still photosynthesize, human still shit. So why not, take the time and think how to make it only better. No use comparing others life, instead, we could use theirs as reference so as to make our lives a better one.