Changes

There comes a time where couples vowed by many that they would take good care of each other no matter what, till death do them part, brave through think and thin together and love each other, care for each other and that never leave each other alone.

Responsibility of husband and wife is clearly defined in today society. It's never difficult to differentiate the roles between the two. It's sad how i learnt that how a husband not logically chose to care for the wife in a different way.

Scenario: The house situation has gotton worse. There isn't money to go around the house, the husband deemed it's better if daily expenses was given to wife instead of giving her the amount which includes pocket money and daily expenses. Wife had no complaints, life goes on. One day, wife got sick, money was needed to see doctor. Husband doesn't bother. Wife can only use the savings which was meant for rainy days to see doctor. Husband still didn't do anything despite pleads.

One word: Disgusted. I'm disgusted at such actions. Never will i respect such a person. I'm sad that such people exist but yes, they does. It shall always serve as a reminder for me, if i'm getting married one day, that i should bear those words that i vowed during solemnisation. I must never fail any of it.

Since the day he was out from that bloody operating theater, he has never been normal. Not to anyone, not me, not my parents, not his friends and not to his girlfriend as well. His temper hasn't changed any bit since that day. No respect to my mother, not even any bit for me as well, i don't really need it anyway.

His pettiness has gotton over him all the time. His metrosexual character has made them more gay than ever. I foresee a day where it will totally been totally unseen by anyone else. Sadly, no one could do anything. His weird lifestlye has made him a real nerd with spices here and there occasionally.

A fight with him yesterday was great. The bruise is worth it. That shows him that doesn't mean if you can win me over a fight means you could climb over my head. Still to say, i'm still the eldest. If no respect is given, i see no reason why i should give in your way. Since soft approach was not able to cultivate some sense into him, the hard one might just do the job.

Sad to say, it's no longer the home i can foresee.