I watched two shows over the two days, two reality/info comm show - 从心开始 & 星期二特写. Both topic somehow has a link, the former talks about how love failed and results in disastrous consequences whereas the latter talks about how love endured, the 'meant to bes' after obstacles both went through.
The former show (从心开始), totally brings out the anger and hatred in me. The lady cried from start of the show, until the end of the show. I totally feel for her. Expectedly, all the callers who starts ringing in were all the innocent women alike and makes me really wonder, bastards are all around us, but then again, without bitches, how will bastards even exist. Shame on those guys who cheated on their girlfriends/wives. I feel disgusted (but not as disgusted as yesterday)
The way she potrayed her ex on national television, I'm totally turned off. To think that the bitch who snatched people's other half away can happily boost of what she's capable of. Shame and disgrace are the words i can think of seriously. It made me ponder real hard, is man really that easily tempted? I tried putting myself in their shoes, i can't figured out why. I always believed in my own analogy - about standing within your circle. More often than that, moments of impluse neglect the consequential events that could be occuring. It's only human to err, and for some mistake, once you err, you're done for, simply no turning back.
If some men are bastards, then some would be perverts too. Look around the street, men who ogle at pretty ladies with great figure. I've personally encounter those real pervertic desperados, literally stick their eyes on that lady body and go gooo gooo gahhh gahhh. Are men really visual animals? Men believe their eyes more than anything else? It makes me thinks, what is really left of men..
Reflecting on that show, trust is everything that is being depended on. Once this very trust is broken, how can it be mended back? Even if there is a way, will it even be the same? Will the crack still exist..? It made me feel that if a relstionship failed, probably it could be this very main reason because there is hardly any other major issues that cannot be resolved, all we need is time. There's probably no answers to those questions and that just reminds me how cruel life can be at times...and sometimes, in such critical and tough period, you just need that little push to make yourself stand up on your feet again and as from the show, they are the 'angels'. They are the ones that put a purpose back to your life again. They are the ones that make you feel all is not over. They are the ones that wake you up and help you tide it over when you needed one the most.
The second show (星期二特写), which was the total opposite of the former, talks about love in a entirely different light. From strangers to newly-weds, this couple talks about how amazing love it and how they overcome obstacles to step into what some would termed as 'the graveyard of love' - marriage.
From strangers, they were just two normal human beings, of different race, different character and different age. Female being chinese, 2 years older as compared to the male is more outspoken, whereas the male, a malay muslim is more reserved and conservative.
They speak on how they finally got together after months of that guy wooing her, his persistance eventually display his sincereness plus his positiveness finally touched the heart of the lady. It made love look so amazing, as to how it can bond two total strangers to one couple who share just about everything under the sun and grow together.
I admired how they overcome religion barriers to be together. The refraining of certain food, the learning of each other religion and culture. All the sacrifices they made almost got me teary. It's like how when you love a person, you look beyond his or her imperfections and you make that little sacrifices just to make that special someone happy and keep the love going. They showed how love isn't one sided but it takes two hands to clap. What one is doing, he or she has got to consider his or her other half and no longer is just about himself or herself alone.
Watching them convincing their parents shows how much they both wanted to be together. Thankfully, they had wonderful parents which make me feel, all parents in this world had the same mindset, afterall, it's their children happiness. The way they object with the style of wedding their parents want and instead, went ahead with their own eventually getting the full support of their parents, made me feel, love is not just about each other.
Naturally, sacrifices are there in every relationship. It's already difficult falling in love, and it's even more difficult to love and be loved. Coming to maintaining the relationsip, it is even much tougher part. It's always those little things that creates the greatest impact and keeps everything going, plus all the necessary aspects - understanding, accomodating, caring etc. All these makes love a even more amazing and wonderful thing. And eventually, from courtship to marriage which is like a part and parcel of every love life where two hold so dearly and it makes total sense of what this lovebirds said - Being together/courtship is just a two persons affair but marriage involved not just two persons but each other families and therefore, this love holds a greater commitment and its returns is much more than anything else in the world.
They ended the show with a quote which infer that one should be really contented with what you have and treasure them. Love with no reservations and remained committed. Not taking things for granted and embrace imperfections.
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