How easy is it to read someone's mind? How good or bad would it even be if we possess the special capability to do so? But it all still seems so impossible. We humans can only make it easier to read someone's mind, but definitely, we can't simply read it off without understanding that person.
Often, misunderstanding occurs. And that can be one of the worst thing that can be happening to me. I hate to be in a situation whereby i caught in between trying to explain myself clearly, and at the same time, already been misunderstood by others. Precisely, it's because of this tiring explanation job, many don't even bother to explain at times. Till time either fade that misunderstanding, or if not, wait till things get worse, that relationship will be torn, possibly forever.
It always seems to us that what we remark in this consciousness is obvious. Hidden meaning aren't easy to be noticed or even discovered. Speak with empathy, make logical or educated guesses on what the person might be thinking, observe his eyes and actions...all in all, it's tiring, but necessary.
Maintaining a relationship factors in understanding whoever is involved, including spending time to do what's mentioned above. Once that level of understanding is reached, slowly, the chances of misunderstanding is minimized. Ever seen buddies who can simply just click the moment they meet? They could even know what the other party is thinking. That bond i called it, is inseperable. It's almost telepathy. I wish i could have that with all my friends, and i really do....
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