Death - Part and Parcel of Life

Although i'm not even close with him, but imagine someone whom you once acquainted. I never once had a deep impression on my acquaintances, but in this case, i tried hard to figure out who he is this time round, eventually i did. I merely worked with him briefly- during my 'good old days' of course. He's quiet, yet partial in some sense.

His departure came sudden. People sometimes feel, good people leave this world way too early. It's simply not because of that but it's more on how when good people left this world, their absence are felt. It's naturally important that you want to be missed when you leave this world, but at the same time, this naturally speaks for how much impact and impression you have left for that very person who misses you when you are still in this world.

For his loved ones, it's just a saddening news. Especially when he's someone who's so alive, at the peak of his life plus the fact that he's healthy, totally fit and healthy. I've faced so many leavings in my life so far, some, friends whom i hit off quite well with as well but i guess it's all part and parcel of life. I can still remembered a news which i read about and further elaborated by my mum which follows:-

A guy, probably around the same age as me, lost his job. Somehow, for some reason, he and his dad had a small little confrontation. In a heated moment, they quarelled and argued. On impulse, the son went back to his room, locked the door. Moments later, his dad tried to ask to ask him out, then...no answer. Worried, the parents tried to pryed open the door, they couldn't. By then, their worry worsen and soon called the Civil Defence to help. Sadly by then, the son had already jumped off the flat from his window and died instantly. His dad rushed down only to see his son's bloodied body and continously blamed himself. Too upset, he went back to the exact same floor, same room and jumped down as well. In the end, two people died - the father and son, leaving the pitiful mother alone to endure all these pain that she shouldn't have. Now let's imagine the pain someone would have experience because of the leaving of their loved ones.

It's not difficult to understand these pain. And certainly for some, it will take years to heal the entire trauma of losing someone you love. I often imagine what would happen to me, should my mum leaves me one day. That will be the saddest thing that WILL happen to me, for if it happens, i will not know how my life's going to be. It's always important to cherish your loved ones, your friends, to treat them with love and respect, of course, to only those who deservingly deserves it, for nobody knows when will god decided to take them away from you..

Lastly, R.I.P Sgt Ang.